The cost of avoiding hard conversations

Read Phil's article in FT Adviser

First published on
Dec 18, 2025
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This article, first published by the FT published in its Adviser section, is about what happens when we sidestep the uncomfortable conversations at work, and how that avoidance can rack up a bigger bill than many leaders expect.

If you’ve got a ‘we should probably talk about this’ situation festering, it’s worth a few minutes of your time.

https://www.ftadviser.com/content/4cdc330c-f68f-49f8-a33c-be0e568f1aa3

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